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How a DINK couple in their 30ies Budgets Their $171k Salary

How a Dink Couple Budgets Their Salary

Welcome to the first episode of The Finance Plan! Here we’ll look at real people’s incomes, net worth, and plan to pay off debt and invest. You’ll see exactly how they’re spending money now and what recommendations I have.

This double income no kids’ household in San Antonio, Texas brings in an impressive $171,697 annually.

 

Job and Income

She’s 37, an Instructional Specialist within the San Antonio school district, and makes $69,215 gross annually, and $5,767 monthly. She started as a teacher and advanced to this position to mentor first and second year teachers. After taxes and benefits including a $475.86 contribution to her pension (Teacher’s Retirement System) her take-home pay is $4,203 monthly.

He’s 34, an Aerospace Engineer and educator and makes $102,481 gross annually. He’s paid $3,941 biweekly and currently contributing 6% ($236.50) into a 401(k) with a dollar for dollar 6% match ($236.50). Most months his take-home pay after taxes and deductions is $5,676. Since he’s paid every other week, some months he’ll receive a third paycheck.

Their Top Three Money Goals

1. Purchase a home together in 2026.

They both individually own homes and recently moved in together into one property with plans to rent the other property out now. Then they want to buy a third home with the new home as their primary residence with two rentals.

2. Retire early, ideally in their 50’s

She wants to pursue a career outside of education and roll over her pension into another retirement account to have full control over when she retires.

3. Continue saving and having money for travel 

They value spending money on travel and experiences and want to have a plan for this in their budget.

The Finance Plan

With money, it’s hard to know where to start. The Finance Plan is a roadmap and your step 1, 2, 3, and 4 with money.

Here’s a quick overview:

  • Step 1: Save 10%
  • Step 2: Get out of Debt
  • Step 3: Emergency Fund: Save 3-12 Months of Expenses
  • Step 4: Life Purchases: Save for a home or car
The Finance Plan

For partnered couples, like this couple, I recommend filling in financial statements individually and then reviewing the numbers and setting long-term goals together. I do recommend physically keeping finances separate unless they legally marry.

Their basic Finance Plan:

Step 1: Save 10%:

  • He increases his investing month from 6% to 10% ($315 additional)
  • She invests 10% in addition to her pension or ($577 monthly)

Step 2: Get out of Debt

  • She pays off her car loan in less than a year by paying $1,000 extra or $1,326 total monthly

Step 3: Emergency Fund: Save 3-12 Months of Expenses

  • Save six-months fund of $42,000 by saving $2,500 monthly

Step 4: Life Purchases: Save for a Home or Car

Save for a 20% down payment on a $350,000 home plus closing costs or $78,400. Once car is paid off and emergency fund is saved, then they save $3,826 monthly.

Let’s dive into the details of their plan and financials.

Current Net Worth and Balance Sheet

A Balance Sheet is your DTR (define the relationship) with money!

A picture is worth a thousand words. Your Balance Sheet is a snapshot or picture of exactly where you stand at a specific point in time. It shows are you building true wealth or borrowing your way into looking wealthy.

A Balance Sheets shows the total current assets, total current liabilities, and net worth.

This couple has a healthy combined net worth of $242,144.

Assets

This is the total current value of everything they own right now.

  • Bank Accounts: $5,799
  • Ally Savings (His): $13,451
  • 401 (K) (His): $103,000
  • IRA (Her): $1,835
  • Pension (Hers): $49,222
  • Bonds (His): $3,920
  • Home #1 (His): $285,000
  • Home #2 (Hers): $167,333
  • Nissan Sentra: $7,100
  • Kia Soul: $20,000
  • Savings Bucket: $100

Total Assets: $656,761

Liabilities

This is the total current value of everything they own right now.

  • Home #1 (His): $267,561
  • Home #2 (Hers): $133,003
  •  Kia Soul: $14,053

Total Liabilities: $414,617

Aside from a car loan and their mortgages they have no consumer debt, which is a massive win!

Total net worth is assets minus liabilities, or $242,144.

Net Worth

How they spend their money.

Cash Flows before The Finance Plan:

Income:

  • His Take-Home Pay: $5,676.64
  • Her Take-Home Pay: $4,203.22

Since he’s paid biweekly, some months he’ll receive a third paycheck. This month there was an additional $2,585.28. They now moved in together and anticipate receiving rental income of $2,000 from renting out one of the homes, but currently it isn’t rented out.

This month’s take-home pay total was $12,465.

Fixed Expenses Now:

  • Retirement Investing (Her After Tax IRA): $180
  • Emergency Fund/House Savings (His): $950
  • Mortgage #1: $2,294.44
  • Mortgage # 2: $861.19
  • Electricity: $195.80
  • Water: $88.89
  • HOA: $150.00
  • Cell Phones: $165.62
  • Internet: $80.00
  • HBO Max: $17.23
  • Spotify: $11.90
  • Gym: $30.31
  • Boxing: $135.00
  • App Subscriptions: $1.98
  • Patreon: $4.33
  • Amazon Prime: $16.23
  • War Room: $14.39
  • Ring: $4.32
  • AC Service: $18.00
  • Car Payment: $326

Total Fixed Expenses now: $5,545

She unexpectedly needed to buy a car and decided going forward she’ll pay an extra $1,000 to pay off her car loan within one year!

Flex Expenses:

  • Weekly Cash: $2,122.02
  • Medical: $131.78
  • Maintenance: $5.00
  • Projects: $551.99
  • Celebrations: $275.91
  • Travel: $1,260.08
  • Fun: $1,710.71

Total flex expenses: $6,057

To reach their goals here’s what I recommend:

1. Purchase a home together in 2026.

Before buying a third property I want this couple to prioritize building a complete emergency fund! A good rule of thumb is to expect to pay 1% the value of each property on maintenance, so with three properties in the future an emergency fund is very important!

Based on their current fixed expenses and spending, I’d say they need around $7,000 to cover their standard basic expenses. I’d aim for a six-month fund of $42,000. Currently they have a starter emergency fund of $13,451. There’s $28,549 left to save.

After they have a complete emergency fund, they can save for the down payment. They estimated the third property would be valued at $350,000. I recommend saving for a 20% down payment, or $70,000. I want them to also plan for closing costs, which we’ll estimate will be 3% of the loan value ($350,000- $70,000= $280,000), or $8,400.

He’s currently saving $950 a month, but to reach this goal, I challenge him to increase the monthly savings to $2,500. Within eleven months he’ll have the complete emergency fund of $42,000. By paying $1,000 extra to her car ($1,326 total), she’ll also have her car paid off. Then collectively they can save $3,826 monthly. Within twenty months they’ll then have an additional $78,400 to purchase the home.

Luckily now interest rates for high yield savings accounts are around 4.2%. This will add a few thousands of dollars to speed the process up. Also, for the months he gets a third paycheck, he can throw to the home savings additionally.

Some food for thought on the third home purchase…

They’re moving in together now and planning on renting out the home he owns now. The mortgage is $2,294 plus $150 for the HOA. Due to the market, they think they can only get $2,000 for the rent. Essentially every month they’ll be losing $444. Is this then a good time to buy a third property? Will the property cash flow net positive? Although it’s a goal to have more rental properties, the stock market historically earns 10% in the long-run (versus home values appreciating 3-4%). They could potentially put money in the stock market for a more passive investing strategy versus dealing with vacancies, low rents, and maintenance expenses.

But if that’s what they wanna do, then do it!

One more caution…

Buying a house together while unmarried (even though they are happily partnered and secure in the relationship now) is very complex and comes with risks. I’d recommend getting a cohabitation property agreement that outlines who owns what in case of a breakup or separation.

2. Retire early, ideally in their 50’s

He’s currently contributing 6% of his income for retirement in his 401(k) plan, which is up to the company match. I recommend he increases his investment contribution now to 10% total monthly. He can do this by boosting his 401(k) contribution, or to have full control over what he invests in, he can open a Roth IRA and contribute the other 4% (an additional $315 a month).

Here’s their retirement projection:

Him Age 34-37:

  • Invests 6% with company match 6% in 401(k) = $12,296/year
  • Invest 4% with Roth IRA ($315 /monthly) = $3,780/year

Saves $2,500 month to complete emergency fund, then down payment. Assuming 8% return, retirement account is valued $181,913 at 37.

 Him Age 37-55:

Once the home is purchased, they now invest $2,500 additionally. Assuming 8% return at age 55 his investments are $2,453,185🤯🤯.

Her Age 37-40:

She has a pension plan, but I recommend her investing 10% of her gross income ($577 a month) in a Roth IRA.

At age 40 her retirement (not including her pension) is $24,788 assuming an 8% return.

Her Age 40-55:

She invests 10% ($577) plus $1,326, what she was paying to her car.

Her nest egg at age 55 assuming 8% return would be $698,681 (not even including her pension!)😲.

3. Continue saving and having money for travel 

Part of any financial plan is spending money on what you value and enjoying life now. With this plan, they can have a plan for trips by monthly forecasting their travel expenses of flights, accommodations, and site seeing.

Here’s the basic monthly budget I recommend with The Finance Plan:

Income:

  • His Paycheck: $ 2,838.32
  • His Paycheck: $2,838.32
  • Her Paycheck: $4,203.22
  • Rental Income: $2,000.00

Total Income: $11,879

*For the months he gets a third paycheck, put to home savings!

Fixed Expenses

  • IRA (Her): $577
  • IRA (His):  $315
  • Emergency Fund/ Home Savings: $2,500
  • Mortgage #1: $2,294.44
  • Mortgage # 2: $861.19
  • Electricity: $195.80
  • Water: $88.89
  • HOA: $150
  • Cell Phones: $165.62
  • Internet: $80
  • HBO Max: $17.23
  • Spotify: $11.90
  •  Gym: $30.31
  •  Boxing: $135.00
  •  App Subscriptions: $1.98
  •  Patreon: $4.33
  •  Amazon Prime: $16.23
  •  War Room: $14.39
  •  Ring: $4.32
  •  AC Service: $18.00
  • Car Payment + Extra: $1,326

 Total Fixed Expenses: $8,807

 Flex Expenses:

  • Weekly Cash: $960
  • Cashless Flex Expenses: $2,112

This couple spent a lot of money on food and eating out. I recommend they use a set amount of cash for the week to pace their spending throughout the month. It’s great for areas people tend to overspend (like groceries, take-out, and hanging out with friends). This budget allows the couple to spend $2,112 monthly on cashless flex expenses like medical, maintenance, projects, celebrations, travel, and fun.

Amazing things happen when you have a plan!

This couple has a solid financial future and is absolutely killing it. Congrats on prioritizing your financial future now.

❤️ Carly

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